How many times, have you or someone close to you, needed a little encouragement, uplifting words, or prayers on your behalf? I HAVE. In moments where exhaustion, sorrow, or feelings of defeat creep into your day the power of a smile, hugs, or words of affirmation can alleviate encroaching weariness and bring a lovely weightlessness to your heart.
It is such an honor and privilege to fulfill a request of prayer from a friend, church family member, neighbor, or even strangers. Paul asked for prayers numerous times and he also prayed for others. I LOVE what he prays for the Philippians, Thessalonians, Corinthians, and many more. Paul prays for God’s children to be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding. to walk worthily of the Lord, to please Him, to be fruitful in every good work, to increase in knowledge of God, to be strengthened with all might according to His glorious power, to be patient and longsuffering with joy, and to give thanks to the Father. Colossians 1:9-12
Paul also prays for His children’s love to abound still more, to have more in knowledge and all discernment, to approve the things that are excellent, to be sincere without offense until the day of Christ, and to be filled with the fruits of righteousness through Jesus Christ. Philippians 1:9-11 So that we may be complete. 2 Corinthians 13:7
In 2 Thessalonians 1:11 Paul prays for God’s children to be counted worthy of calling, to fulfill the good pleasure of goodness, to do the work of the faith with power, and for the name of the Lord be glorified in you and in Him.
Jesus prays for Himself, His apostles, and all those who would listen to the Apostles teachings and obey His will. John 17 The entire chapter is a prayer spoken by Jesus.
Jesus and Paul give instructions on how to pray. Ephesians 6:18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints. Colossians 4:2-3 Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving; meanwhile praying also for us, that God would open to us a door for the word… 1 Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing
Why do I write about knowledge you already know? I am persuaded to point out that Jesus prayed for others and asked for others to pray for Him. Paul prayed for others and asked others to pray for him.. Is this a sign of weakness or strength? Is it a measurement of their faith? Are their own prayers not enough? These are all absurd questions!! Asking for prayers, admitting you are tired, worn out, or struggling is not a measurement of your faith or a lack of prayer in your life. Asking for prayers when the next step you take seems heavier than the last one you took is a show of strength!! Asking for prayers is a measurement of trust and confidence in the ones you are requesting them from, knowing they will take your name before our Father in heaven and lift you up before His throne.
Please contemplate what your words will be when a struggling friend, a worn out mom, a devastated father, a confused child, a seeking co-worker, a frustrated clerk, a walker pushing elderly person, a call center representative, a church leader, the preacher’s wife, and so many more who frequently enter our lives on a regular basis request your prayers. They need them with no strings attached. They need them with no expectations. They need them with no judgements. They especially need them when they don’t ask for them. Don’t send them on their way heavier with the burdens they are carrying. Don’t remind them of what they ought to do. Don’t tell them it not that big of a deal. Don’t invalidate their request.
Kinder, more compassionate words might be; I’m sorry you are dealing with so much, let’s pray about this. What can I do for you or your family? Are you going to be okay? Choose words that make them feel hugged and comforted. Encouraging words that convey that EVERYTHING is going to work out and God is going to provide a way for them.
Jesus’s faith never waivered, Paul’s faith never waivered, David’s faith never waivered, and yet each one of them asked for prayers and offered prayers. Mostly likely, the person asking you for prayers has great faith, but just needs a little reminder that God is working in others to help them along when life gets ugly and out of tune.



